The truth is also that this is not just about getting a RESULT, is it now?
It’s about the simple fact that right now you don’t feel SATISFIED at how you’re playing life. Yeah, you want to be and do and have all those things you dream of.
But most of all? You want to go to bed every night knowing you LIVED ALL OUT. Feeling filled up with YOU. And so so very proud of yourself for finally, truly, being the person who you said you would be, excuses be fucked.
Letting fear rule you is just.not.worth it.
And after all –
This is not a dress rehearsal!
I spent years telling myself that one day I would do the damn thing of becoming the damn thing I knew I was meant to be.
That I would make a lot of money –
Create a lifestyle where I got to just wake up each day and be me –
Write the books I was meant to write –
Have the body I REALLY wanted –
And finally figure out how to be the leader, messenger, writer, speaker, coach I knew I was meant to be, even though every part of me was screaming at me that I wasn’t good enough, had no clue what I was doing, and maybe wasn’t even a proper grown-up!
You have to understand – and this is what I’m here today to talk to you about – that EVERYBODY –
and I mean EVERYBODY! Everybody who you look to and consider a person who has their shit together … is super talented … or has some kind of hyper-human discipline, or whatever, ALL of them, yes, 100%, have that SAME VOICE IN THEIR HEAD THAT YOU DO.
Telling them they can’t.
Are not good enough.
That their fears are valid.
That they shouldn’t even try.
That everybody else is better, smarter, funnier, and has better hair too!
Yeah, some of ’em who are now living their dream have got so far beyond all of that that they really do own how awesome and powerful they are – as well we all should! But, having now personally privately mentored HUNDREDS of the worlds most amazing leaders, entrepreneurs, creators, and worked with thousands upon thousands more in a more indirect way through my group programs and challenges, I can tell you that even for those who are ‘there’, self-doubt and fear and so on still tries to bite ’em on the ass and stop them going to that NEXT level!
Everybody is human.
The difference between those who are doing the damn thing to be the damn thing, and those who are not, is that they DID IT ANYWAY.
They recognised that they had the ability to act FROM self-belief rather than having to work TOWARDS it before being able to start.
And they said thank you but no thank you to being led by fear.
Have you done that, for you?
Is it time to go further?
Or are you still waiting for a wake-up call, for life to smack you over the face in some way? Well, what if that doesn’t happen? And, do you really need it to happen in order to motivate you to be really YOU?! C’mon!
When I was 20 I figured that by the time I was 30 I’d have my shit together, be rich AF (lol), have the perfect marriage and home and kids and be absolutely showing up for my purpose. After all, I KNEW that I was born for more! I’d always known it, always felt it, and I guess I just thought that at some point it would come together, y’know? After all, this was destiny!
Have you ever had a wake-up call around the fact that you are COMPLETELY full of shit?