A lot of people look at me, or my clients, or really anyone who SHOWS UP fully for their business, their art, their life, and might think, wow -
This woman is super badass, she's so confident and she knows how to talk well and all of this sort of stuff, and 'I could never be like HER'.
Well, it's true that I and those like me DO show up badass, confident, ON, but that's because it's a choice. A daily choice, to put your 'shit' aside and do the work anyway. Of course it's also because plain and simple I've had a lot of PRACTICE at showing up, which does lead to being more polished, professional, on point.
But why have I had so much practice? Because I did the damn thing even when I didn’t know how and felt I wasn’t able to.
So, you know, where does it (being the person who shows up like THAT) really come from?
It comes from you put yourself out there long before you're ready. And you made it happen even when you feel like a complete fraud as well.
What other choice do you have, if you're serious about where you want to go?
For me to do that though, I had to put aside my own insecurities, and the fact that actually I’m not naturally confident, I’m not an extrovert at all and in fact anyone who knows me, knows I am the opposite of that. In fact people who meet me in person are usually like, "omg you’re so quiet and shy compared to how you are online!"
For me to be able to bring what's in me out and REALLY step into the true work that I’m here to do as a leader, as a magic maker, as a messenger, a writer, a revolutionary, as a badass fucking unapologetically extra woman, I had to get a little aggressive and pull this part of me out that was like ..
“what in the actual fuck have you been doing here? Like what is really happening here?”
Like I’ve said before - "you don’t know how", or it’s "the wrong phase of the fucking moon or something", too bad. Do you want the results or not?
In the end it’s very black and white. You’re either GOING to take action and you’re going to get there, or you’re going to stay ALL the way down with all the other jokers, living a life of bullshit.
Ask yourself - why is it that you imagine to yourself that in order to be this called and purpose driven amazing badass who’s doing his or her purpose work in the world, that you’ve ALREADY got to be confident, certain and badass all of the time?
That's not how it works!
It’s a piece from inside of you that you bring out - and you need to consciously choose to bring it out. Perhaps by letting me kick your ass in my new program 'Called' 😉
Because no matter how far you climb, everyday you DO have to choose: which way am I going to go today? What am I going to do? Red pill or blue pill today, which is it?
I know which one I’m going to choose even though some days are harder than others.
This is what I'm here for:
To kick your ass and help you to find and fully REMEMBER who you are, and then become it.
Our work here in 'Called' is so different and so unique because this time we’re not just going in to uplevel business and to be the next level you in business or with money.
Yep we ARE doing that, but we're recognising that that is just ONE part of it.
We HAVE to also look at how you're creating a standard of excellence in ALL the different areas of your life.
And basically turn you into a superhuman machine as we do so!!
Business,
Money,
Body, inside and out
Lifestyle
Mindset
LIFE
All of it at the standard YOU KNOW IT IS MEANT TO BE FOR YOU.
Finally taking care of yourself.
Finally treating yourself like a person who has the CAPACITY, physically, mentally, emotionally, energetically, spiritually to be their BEST in all areas.
Finally being in alignment, also, with what happens BEHIND the scenes, and in your LIFE, and how all of that really does of COURSE contribute to your business.
If you want to be a leader, a chosen one, who also chooses themselves ... if you want to be the magic maker who you know you are ...
Then you BETTER attend to business, and not just IN business, because it doesn’t work that way.
We’ve all seen entrepreneurs who have made money and whose lives are a complete mother fucking disaster! And by the way you can see that shit - it’s an energy, a glow.
I really think that for me to have created what I have in business and in life, while there’s been so many thing where I’ve taken action that I’m not proud of, and made choices that didn’t feel good, and not said yes to purpose -
Ultimately bit by bit In all different areas, I have been honest about what I needed to change and who I needed to become in all of these different areas.
It’s just not going to work if you’re showing up to the Internet and all .. "yeah live your dream life, live your purpose, follow soul, follow God", and then the camera goes off and you’re yelling at your kids and binging on chocolate and crying yourself to sleep at night -
That might be part of being human, but it’s also things we have choice over.
It’s about taking that choice and making a decision to step back and go -
“Wow, actually this is not ok. This is not in alignment with my values and my beliefs, and actually if I were to continue on this part and ‘succeed’ in business at what cost would it be? is that actually what I would call successful fulfilment? “
And let’s not forget that success and fulfilment, these things are really an emotion and a feeling, it’s not how many followers you have or how many likes, or how much money you have in the bank - it’s none of those things-
It’s asking yourself when you go to bed at night, do I feel I am living in accordance with my own values?
Can I hand on heart say - yes, I pressed play today and said yes to what I know I needed to say yes to! Part of that is saying NO to the things that aren’t a hell yes, being bold enough and strong enough internally to turn away from those things and make space for what is aligned to come in -
Whether it’s business and doing what you came here to do in the world and making the difference that you’re here to create!
Whether it’s business, your body, having an epic amazing relationship with who you’re meant to be with and making that work, all the different areas of life, either way, it always comes back to being willing to say NO to anything that’s not a hell yes - in order to make space for what IS a hell yes, to come through -
That’s probably one of the scariest things of all.
It’s quite easy to create a shadow business, a shadow life, home, relationship, and continue to tell yourself every day that this is enough, and it should be enough, you should be happy, and maybe one day I’ll magically end up with the life I know I was meant to create.
It won’t happen -
This will only happen if you’re willing to be truthful with yourself about where you’re not showing up and where you’re not pressing play. And where you are giving your energy and emotion to things that are not the right things.
It’s so important to understand that every moment you give your energy to something that is not purpose and from alignment and the truth of what you know is right for you, it’s literally what you’re creating your life.
And it’s creating the wrong life -
It’s not a matter of, let me just fill up all this space in my life till the right life comes along, nope you’ll miss out.
Just because you have a destiny doesn’t mean you’ll ever live it -
Just because you know you could be in that dream body and dream relationship, have the business, the house. Just because you know it’s all possible and available doesn’t mean any of it’s gonna happen.
The only way it will happen is if you make space for it!
You hold the intention and have faith, which is a choice by the way, it’s not something you get or earn, you choose it -
You choose to act from faith
You choose to be ok with being in the void and flying blind -
And THEN along with all those things, you choose to do the damn work, whatever that work is each day.
This is exactly what Called is about.
Life bootcamp.
Of the highest and most aligned fucking order.
The way it damn well should be.