They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:
They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,
and they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.
They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”
lolol
BUT REALLY.
Meanwhile, you –
You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?
You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.
You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.
You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,
Polished,
And just so –
And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?
Makes you want to hurl.
Sure –
You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.
An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,
WITHERS TO NOTHING,
AND DIES?
Sure –
Why not 😉
And look.
It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,
Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –
It’s God damn tiring –
But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!
You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.
NOW.
With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow
And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!
– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it
You know who I’m talking about –